How To Be Confident

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Confidence is not always within you from birth. Sometimes it has to be cultivated. Sometimes it’s more the product of what you’ve been through and how you’ve mastered and moved beyond situations.

Life is about live energy transference and growth. During the whole of the time span that you live and you breathe – you give, take and use positive or negative energy; you share it; you push, pull and deliver it around to others that you talk to – interact with or wonder about. Nothing else exists but this movement. It’s invisible” but it completely governs life and the way that you live it” whether you are happy or sad…

You are unique. The way you process information, how you put things together, how you feel, think, see and hear your way through life, is too. There is no need to wish you were different than you are, for you have trained for the whole of your timespan, perhaps over many incarnations, to be exactly as you are today” for good reason…

Life as it stands at this moment – needs you to be you” to be able to take you forward from this point right now. You needed to perceive your life span as you did to gain the many strengths, talents and lessons that you wouldn’t have otherwise encountered. If you had changed any sooner beyond recognition, too drastically or dramatically, you wouldn’t have fulfilled your ‘soul agenda’ criteria… You would be different and therefore unable to connect to your own inner circle of loved ones and friends as you have done.

Remember too that you are quite unique…

Life is about growth and evolvement. You evolve beyond that which no longer serves you as well as it did in the past; you evolve and release” sometimes to replace” what in adulthood holds you back or keeps you stuck… Life itself needs steady growth and progression in a non-ending unfoldment of movement and knowledge. You too form part of that process.

Life is either positive or negative at any moment that presents. You too are the same. You’re unfolding| You can make or break the outcome of any situation that you interact with in an instant” just by the way that you think or believe… You are powerful. You manipulate outcomes and energy. You can hold or clear space with your presence. You actually create life, this ever changing real time existence in your own right|Life does not care if you are shy” for no one can feel it except you, and in being so, you succeed only in holding yourself back with that habit. You hinder your own progress with shyness. You hold yourself back unnecessarily from things that you could quite easily enjoy should you try!

Shyness is a habit that once upon a time during childhood was seen to be cute, and it may have kept you safe for a while, but in truth in adulthood, it serves only to hamper and hinder.


Letting shyness go is easy once you know how it works” and this is where we can help you to kick it away once and for all” without effort, just as surely as we can raise up your confidence to replace it|(‘Life is Calling!’ and ‘And So It Begins!.’ will be great” for both reasons” as daily guidance and interactive support systems!!)

Confidence stems from within. When you are balanced and at peace with yourself, your surroundings and your ability, the confidence you naturally exude attracts extra energy directly back towards you” whereas shyness and insecurity let it drain away unstoppably, untapped and unused.

You are capable of being and doing anything that you dare to dream possible.

Nothing is beyond your attainment when you apply yourself and your efforts correctly. Life itself is willing you on. It’s wanting and needing your personal success because in turn the energies you channel back will be purer, finer and more conducive to balance, health, peace and success. You actually help life help itself with your positivity, growth and attainment!

In the beginning all souls were equal and spiritually they still are. Today equality is still available on a physical level, but we have to consciously choose to ignite it ourselves. You can be and do all that you wish|Why would you ever believe any different?

All options are available and open for you to select and invest in. Do you have the confidence to believe in your best” or are you still stuck in believing the worst?

Confidence is yours. It’s attainable for all without charge” you just have to slightly alter your mind-set to notice it was yours all along!

If you have enjoyed what you’ve just read, if it’s resonated within at any level, then the material we’ve channelled/downloaded (in much the same way as Einstein and Mozart produced life changing works) will work directly in tune with you to help you become powerfully confident. You know all thoughts you are currently thinking. You know how you feel” good and bad” and what you most need to come in. You know what is happening within your own circle of life even now” and it’s from this pin point immediately that guidance will be given” to take you forward with ease,, to get your whole life back on track, working productively, completely in tune with where you are!

If you continue along the same lines you always have up to date” you’ll simply attract more of the same. For life to get better and for you to work with it, for you to gain the confidence to stand your own ground and attract what is destined to uplift and enhance what plays out, you need to also understand how you hold yourself back, how you program your lack of confidence as you do.

How you move forward from here” rests with you!


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